Men communicate with one another through conversation. In that conversation men listen to the word that are being said and only those words that word that are being said.
Women on the other hand communicate with words that are being said and also with those words that are not being said.
When you mix these to forms of communications there will be casualties on both sides.
Here can be a problem: when a man asks from a woman “What did I do wrong?” and the answer is “It’s not what you did but it’s what you didn’t do!” Mans brain goes into meltdown since it is trying to figure out all the things he didn’t do and the things he should have done and those things that he didn’t do and he shouldn’t have done.